Do you trust your doctor?

I'm going to tell you the story of Jayme, in the hopes that this never happens to anyone else.

Coming home from her honeymoon in January, Jayme started experiencing shortness of breath. It was nothing major, and it passed, but it was the start of quite an ordeal for her.

Not long later she started having pain in her abdomen. It got so bad she went to the emergency room. Even though the pain was high and to the side, about mid ribs, they decided she needed her appendix removed. The pain didn't go away because it wasn't her appendix. They decided that it was kidney stones, so they sent her back to work with the advice that she should drink a lot of fluids. Again, they were wrong.

She's fortunate that she works in a medical center. She started feeling some pain in her leg and started limping. A doctor there told her she needed to go back to the emergency room. Her foot swelled up and turned purple while she waited. And the pain never let up.

After several weeks of pain, two wrong guesses by doctors, and an unnecessary surgery, they finally figured out what was wrong. She had TWO pulmonary embolisms (blood clots) in her lung, which is what was causing the pain, and a 21 inch blood clot in her leg.

So she had to have a tube surgically implanted to administer anti-coagulants in her leg and has been in the hospital for another week. She'll be on medication for at least 6 months to try to rid her body of the clots. This is a very serious medical condition, one that can easily kill a person. 15% of all sudden death cases are attributed to pulmonary embolism. This is something that they think started on her honeymoon in December, but it took until late February to get her correctly diagnosed. It's been a terrible ordeal for her and her new husband, one that could have been significantly easier if she'd been diagnosed correctly in the beginning.

Interestingly, one of the major causes of this kind of clot is forced immobility, like a long plane ride. Also, obesity and estrogen containing contraceptives can contribute, along with genetic factors. But most people get this kind of condition from riding in air planes.

So the moral of the story is this: if you have ANY doubt, get a second opinion. When it comes to your health and your body, don't be afraid to stand up for yourself. If she'd insisted it was not her appendix, pain being in the wrong place and all, they might have found this earlier. But she deferred to her doctor, thinking he knew best. Not that I blame her at all. Almost of us would do the same. But we all need to be more proactive in taking care of ourselves, not automatically assuming our doctor knows best. I'd have been saved 3 months of a terrible emotional roller coaster if I'd insisted my doctor give me Ambien instead of all the other weird meds she put me on when I went in for insomnia. I'm coming to realize that, though there is a great deal of science in the practice of medicine, a lot of it is also educated guess work. So don't be afraid to take a stand, or get a second opinion, if you're at all unsure about what your doctor is telling you.
And if you experience any pain, especially in your leg, or unexplained shortness of breath after a long plane ride, go see your doctor immediately.

Are you serious?!

I can't believe it. Becca did it again. I'm just speechless. I don't know how in the world I am going to get through to this girl. I just don't want to go through the entire story, so I'm just going to go ahead and give you the picture of her resulting hair cut. And no, I didn't cut it myself. This is the best they could come up with. It hides the area she just cut and blends the areas still growing out. At least that's the idea...

Time to purge: SPT

The challenge for the week was this:

the other day, i was in my _____________, and i noticed this _______________. my only thought was, "why do i still have this hanging around my house?!?"

The ther day, I ws in my family room, and I noticed this crappy old stool. My only thought was, "Why do I still have this hanging around my house?!?"

This stool was cheap. It's bent and doesn't even sit flat. The seat is hard and uncomfortable. Originally it was meant for the kids to use at their computer desk, but they have other, much better options now. Why do I still have it? I have no idea. I'd sit on the floor before I sat on this thing. It's definitely time I get rid of it.

Party time!

Hooray for birthday parties!

At least that's what Becca would say. Today was her very "fantastic" birthday party. Fantastic, by the way, is Becca's new favorite word. She decided she wanted a party where people could dress up in whatever they wanted. She'd talked once about a princess party, but didn't want to exclude the boys, and didn't want to force anyone to be a princess who didn't want to be a princess. Her genious solution? A Halloween party.

We pulled out some of our favorite Halloween decorations and let everyone know they could dress up if they wanted. Then we went to work on games. She wanted creepy games, but not gross games. The list for the day included making spider cookies, pin the nose on the jack o' lantern, mummy wrap, count the candy, eye ball hunt, and hide-and-go-scare. Confused yet? I'll explain.

Spider cookies are made out of chocolate cookies, chocolate frosting, peel apart twizlers, and red hots for eyes. Pin the nose on the jack o' lantern is like pin the tail on the donkey. Mummy wrap is a take on the bridal shower game where you make a wedding dress out of toilet paper, but in this case you wrapped your partner up as a mummy. Count the candy was just a jar full of candy and the person who guessed the closest to the actual number got to keep it. Eye ball hunt was the most fun. There were golf balls with eyes drawn on them hidden in big bowls of slimy spaghetti noodles that they had to find. And hide-and-go-scare is like hide-and-go-seek, but you get to scare people as you find them. She had a wonderful time and loved every single game. All the kids seemed to really enjoy themselves.

But the best part may have been the cake. She decided she needed a creepy cake too. So we did a worm cake! Crushed up oreos for dirt, chocolate pudding for mud, coconut flakes dyed green for grass, and lots and lots of gummi worms. She was SO excited for her cake. It was a huge hit.